Monday, July 23, 2012

For The Bottoms


Hey bottoms I got a question for you.  When you are…uh…being entered, can you feel the difference when a guy is wearing a condom and when he’s not?  I mean like is there a different sensation when an uncovered  dickhead is rubbing against your asshole than one with the rubber sleeve is covering his dick?

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  1. No Scott you won't be able to tell. Not reliably enough for you, given your situation and for a whole bunch of reasons not the least of which is being "caught up in the moment". Use your hand to guide him into you. That way YOU can feel whether a condom's in place even if you can't see it. Be very careful....there are a lot of bad actors out there that care not one whiff for your safety. Only YOU can protect yourself and your family.
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  2. Oh and one other thing: DO NOT let an uncovered dick near your butt, ever!!! And that goes for cum or pre-cum contaminated fingers entering you. That is body fluid exposure. Sex doesn't happen in the controlled environment of an operating room. There are lots of opportunities for incidental exposure. You've gotta be smart and be CAREFUL..all foreplay, including teasing your butt, needs to happen with a COVERED penis. Don't leave your family's safety in the hands of a stranger. Like it or not, it's YOUR job to protect them. I can only pray you take that job seriously
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  3. No - not at all.

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  4. How's this, once I get past the horrified look when a dude is about to stick it to me, I will let you know if the condom "gets" in the way.

    SJ

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  5. No, you can't tell at the moment of entry or during the fucking. You'll be able to tell if he cums, because the feeling of a condom filling is a lot different. So always be safe and guide your lover in so you can be sure he's covered and you're protected!

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  6. Scott,
    First. Make sure there are no tears or rips in the condom.
    Second. Do NOT use a vaseline products with a latex condom. The vaseline will break down the latex rendering it, useless. Use ky with a latex condom. Personally, I would not top anyone. Not in this day and age, nor would I let anyone do it to me, nor have I. I prefer to top, but too dangerous. I would have to be seeing someone on a regular basis and knowing that they tested std free.

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  7. Nope there is no difference, the only way you know that he came, is that he body stops humping like a mad crazed dog, and he roars like a tiger, moans like a hyena, and when you look at him, he's making a "monkey face", and after, he just lies atop of you, and then "pop", he pulls out.

    He will be more than happy though, to show you his juice inside the condom.

    Stroke his ego, and say "Holy shit" your a beast..

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    1. Hey dude, anonymous Jul23 at 4:pm, I must have banged you, that's exactly what I go through when I bang someone. Can't help myself. You thanked me for practicing safe sex, after you called me a hounddog, and then you asked to see the "milk".

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  8. I have only had a couple cocks in my butt. Neither one did much for me, however, the guys really enjoyed it. Do bottoms feel satisfaction, or were these guys not rubbing the right spots in me? Same with a dildo, it didn't make me cum, but it wasn't bad, just not amazing like being a top.

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  9. Scott.. only had one uncovered cock up my ass, and I only knew that b/c I happened to look back at him as he pulled out and there was no condom on him... Play stopped right then. But.. no.. no difference in feel.

    Anon 4:07.. bottoming may just not be your thing. Some guys really get off on the sensation. And yeah, there are some spots a good top'll root around for to make sure you get somethin' out of it, too. In my case.. takin' it up the ass is more about "giving it up" to the guy on top and having him dominate me. The best part for me is that stab of pain on entry.. beyond that.. nyah. When I'm on top.. knowin' the guy on bottom's hurtin' some.. and fightin' through it for me just fuckin' makes me harder.

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    1. this is anon 4:07...yes I like to be there for the other guy...but I sure don't seem to enjoy it like the guys I fuck. They get lots of pleasure out of it, so I like doing that more. I figured maybe I'm just not a bottom. But good idea to reach down to guide in and feel the condom.

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    2. To me it s also a mental thing. The top is using my hole to get an orgasm. So hot getting dominated like that. Guess it s only for a bottom to truly understand.

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  10. Great question Scott. I stick with oral mostly, but find a lot of guys in the NSA sex scene want to get fucked raw, without a condom. They usually claim to be DDF, Clean, STD free and HIV neg.

    So, if there's no difference in the feel, why the hell are all these dudes wanting it bareback? I honestly don't get it.

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    1. Cause the want to feel the guy cum inside the. The fucking part isn't much different. The want the intimacy of raw sex and the like the feeling of being bred.. Dangerous as hell. Any guy willing to take a chance on a stranger being "safe" whether they're a top or a bottom is into risky stuff and tops can get HIV

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  11. Both of those guys, need some manscaping. Big time! Maybe even a lawnmower servicel.

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    1. "Man"scaping, is for pussies.

      Over and out

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    2. Never should they guys above do grooming (OK the shaft can be shaved) but NO. Hair is where it is supposed to be.

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  12. Old bob says...
    Been a top and bottom for a long time, mostly bottom now. No real difference in sensation, more of a feeling of connectedness and intimacy getting barebacked. Back in the day (pre AIDS) it wasn't safe sex, it was just sex, condoms were birth control. As far as liking it, yeah, if you're getting fucked just right, the top's cock massaging your prostate can make you cum without even touching your dick, and that is awesome. Doesn't always happen, but when it does it's life changing. Disease is certainly an issue, but knowing your partner changes the riskiness a lot. Hard to know your partner though of its all Craigslist. So, be careful.

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    1. Thanks Old Bob, will be careful, Buddy I have a question for you, I am a very healthy male, why is it that I can't enjoy anal sex. I have to assume I have a prostate, but (no pun intended) I don't feel pleasure, not that is is painful if the dude is average, but I want to experience this great feeling that alot of "bottoms" have.

      I regard myself as being a "bottom", only because when I am with a dude I want him, ahh,, to be in charge (the man), I would really feel like a total bottom if anal sex was enjoyable.

      Thanks for any advice.

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    2. You may want to try different positions. One may feel much better than the other. Once you get the one that feels best, go for it. The other thing you could do to make sure that things are ok, see a urologist. The give you a physical finger exam. I think the guy that I saw is in love with me.

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  13. In response to Anon. 6:08, I think the fur on the men in the photo is awesome. Manscaping? Maybe for other body parts like the back, but if you want a smooth tush, I say find a woman.

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  14. For the bottom you can't tell the difference, but for the top you can (just like hetero sex). Just be wary. I recently went to get tested (clean!) and they said: 1. the risk is slightly higher if you're bottoming unprotected versus topping. 2. use lots of lubrication, which can help prevent tears in the, uh, butt... and the penis. 3. don't let fluid get inside you. Basically, always use protection and lots of lube...

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  15. So once again all day yesterday Google Chrome blocked this site due to suspicious malware. I could have entered at my own risk - but I do that all the time.

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    1. Lucky,
      I have added Ad-Aware to my pc and when I come on to Scott's, it verifies his page as being safe. You may want to download Ad-Aware. I also have spy-bot and Malware on my system. Run them once a week. Enjoy the well need raid.
      bj

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    2. Thanks - I have all the spy-bot malware - security crap on my computer too - Then Google Chrome adds yet another layer of "security" - I'm so safe I'm positively antiseptic.

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    3. Lucky,
      Sometimes, when I run a system, that system will say, that another system may be, not spying on the system, but inferring that. One may consider the other with caution. Caution is a better work, although, not the exact work that is used. I have not had any problem with be careful. In fact, at the top of my pate, ad-aware is saying, this page is safe. There is also a green shield that they have with a checkmark. You may want to try and get onto scotts through yahoo, and see if adaware posts an ok at the top left of your screen.
      Tornado warnings for the ne this afternoon. I am heading further north. Baseball area.

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  16. Hey Scott,

    I know that your commitment to this blog has changed over the years, but when you thing about it Straight Jock Talking needs an updated My Blog Bruthas!

    JoeR

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  17. Gotta disagree. I can feel the difference. I checked with a buddy who loves to bottom and he can feel the difference between a cock with a rubber and bare one.

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  18. Oh yes please part those beefy hairy cheeks
    very nice indeed thanks, for the little peek

    would I be so bold to ask you to let me in
    you do know it's no longer a sin

    I promise to lube you up real good, and use a rubber
    didn't I tell you we would have fun this summer

    Oh man it feels so snug and tight
    I'm trying not to cum with all my might

    but I am sorry dude, I am going to burst, it feels so fine
    could I be so brazen to ask you to be mine

    thanks for letting me go so deep
    now lets cuddle and drift off to sleep

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  19. yes yes and yes no condamn is so much better

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  20. Yeah, I don't know who those insensitive assholes are but there's a distinct difference. It's like being touch with a bare hand or one that wears latex glove. Even after getting well lubed, I can still feel the difference. I don't know whether it has anything to do with being tight or gapingly loose. lol.

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  21. So, where's Scott???? Would he end it this way without a goodbye?? Yeah, the blog's changed but I didn't think he'd chicken shit out like that.

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  22. Wake up and smell the "asshole" oops meant coffee. The blog hasn't changed it's Scott who has changed. Go back to the last 15 posts, Scott has answered very, very, few of us. No humor, nothing.

    In the good old days, he would at least make 2 or 3 comments for every post.

    Granted he is a busy family man, works had, but now he licks pussy and sucks cock, so that must be taking up his time. Once you get a taste of the meat, it's easy to cheat.

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  23. I had emailed Scott and he didn't answer. I thought that I had something valid. Maybe he is tired and ready to hang it up. I have said my goodbyes. This experience has been like a romance, and a good one, but now it may be over. I hope that he is ok. He must be going through some type of hell with what is going on with his wants and needs and responsibilities. Recently, I met a guy, who is in that double life situation and it is in a small down. Never thought that he was bi, but he is, and his main concern is his family, but he loves being with a guy. That guy can't deny his needs, but he dare not tell his wife or anyone else. It would cost him his family and probably his job. Small towns, as this one is, he would be humiliated, unfortunately. Best to all of you.
    Scottie, wherever you are, I hope that you are safe. You are one special human being. We are indebted to you.
    God Bless You.
    Scott, if its done, I wish you the best of luck. Learned a lot from this blog and met a lot of nice guys through there replies. Maybe, one day, we can all get together and get laid. Must add, by one another.
    take care.

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  24. You guys are so dramatic.....

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  25. in this life, a pair of Queens beats a full house any day.

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  26. I've bottomed a couple times, didnt see no difference. I suppose more experienced asses could notice some difference between uncovered uncut cocks to covered. Once an uncovered one is in, there isn't as much friction as for when it's covered, or also compared to cut cocks. It's like the skin has a smaller relative movement to the anus, and the cock is going back and forth inside the skin, if that makes sense :P I'm just speculating tho

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  27. I guess like everything it varies from person to person. I can tell when its covered or not, unless its a monster and tearing me a new one. When I bottom I feel alot of physical sensations if the guy has lots of big vains on his dick I can even feel that.I prefer to have just enough spit/lube to enter without pulling skin but to much lube and I lose sensation, maybe thats part of the problem for some of you.

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    1. Yeah I agree. with a huge cock, no but with a normal cock it gets kinda wrinkled up/bunched up and sticks sometimes. I feel like the head is more pronounced too when it pops in wihtout a condom. IDK, the answer here is mixed. I had a guy with a huge dick (a hot southern frat guy no joke) who came in me and kept fucking me. I could feel the cum filled bubble at the end of this dick pop in every time lol.

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  28. bullshit! Scotty, don't listen to these "tell you what to do police"!! If you gotta be safe, it's true, the sensations are mostly still there, but a bare cock in your butt is definitely better! More intimate, and not so 'squeaky.' :)

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    1. In case your not aware anon at 8:06, Scott's a married man. Do u suppose that unprotected anal sex is going to be fair to his wife? If he catches something and brings it home not only is it simply WRONG by any standard, his life as he knows it and I presume WANTS it is over but his wife could sue him civily and he wouldn't have enough left over for a room on skid row with a hot plate to cook his meals. That sound like a fair trade to YOU for a moment of "intimacy" with some asshole off Craig's list?????

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  30. Y'all are liars. You can 100% tell the difference bare vs. with a condom. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a liar and/or has no feeling in his asshole.

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  31. I can tell a difference in the feel of bare vs condom. Does a condom bother me? I would have to say not really unless I think about it. But the answer is yes, there IS a difference in the feeling of it

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  32. Interesting! All the ones who have something to say!!!!!!

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