Monday, June 11, 2012

Catch Me


So a lot of you guys know that my first experience with a guy was jacking off in front of him in a scene where he walks in on me. Ya it was staged but to a newbie it was fuckin hot as hell. And I think a lot of guys have that fantasy. But if you think about it, I mean, what’s the fantasy? We all fuckin know we jack off.  Some totally straight guys even jack off together and don’t think at all about it. Some guys are totally comfortable walking in on a buddy, or being walked in on.  I walked in on a guy once, didn’t even see anything cuz he rolled over so alls I saw was his ass. But I remember I couldn’t even look at the guy the next day, and he couldn’t look at me. Like we were ashamed. Wtf???  That’s when I was in college.  Uh…I’ve changed a bit since then lol. 

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  1. I keep hearing about these straight guys who j/o together, but I've never actually meet one. I think they are an urban legend.

    I think that the real reason that it is tough to even find guys that will talk about jacking off is that we are trained that sex is bad. We like the pleasure of touching ourselves. But we are trained not to. It is a sin! It will lead to insanity (if you were born in the Victorian period). And that training sticks. So it becomes something that we hide and are ashamed of and that only a gay guy would want to watch.

    Scott, I don't think you have changed all that much. Do you and your buds get together for beer and a circle jerk? LOL

    Mark from Pittsburgh

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    1. Mark,
      I agree with your second paragraph, with one exception, that is is only something that a gay guy would watch. There is one thing, though. We may not talk about it, because we all know how good it feels. What would we say after that? We can add, it is the best of self pleasures a man can have. Right?
      There is something that I am seeing more of. More str's are crossing over. Even guys in their twenties are curious. It just may be, that since more women are entering business, more and more men are looking at other guys for comfort. That's a possibility. Have a good day.

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    2. The j/o group I belonged to was 98% straight, married. I'd also be willing to bet that 90% of the guys in the circle jerks in the barracks were straight dudes.

      Thankfully, jerking off is coming out of the closet, so to speak. Guys are more willing to admit thay indulge. Sure makes it easier when you live in a dorm situation.

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    3. Mark ... Pittsburgh here too bro, always wonder if any of these readers are nearby ... Cool ...

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    4. Mark ... Pittsburgh here too bro ... Often wondered if any readers were close by hit me up

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  2. Does catch me, imply something else. Does someone want to be caught or to be an exhibitionist? Maybe so.
    I haven't participated in a circle jerk since I was a kid and I was the youngest of the group. The object was, who can shot the farthest and highest up on the wall. I know one thing, we were all beating the band. I remember going up on the toes of my shoes when I started to shoot. I actually think, it was the pleasure of it all, trying to raise me right out of my shoes. It was my first and a most wonderful time. There ain't nothing wrong with self pleasure. Try it and let us know.
    Anyone for a 6p.m. after work session?

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  3. My first assignment in the military was an eye opener...I walked into the room and the guy was stretched out on his bunk, leafing through a porn mag and stroking away. He remained casual and calm about it. Told me if it bothered me I should go down to the day room for an hour. A few weeks later he invited me to join the circle jerks.
    In college - yeah, when I walked in on my roomie, he was all scrambling to cover up and shit. You need to handle (no pun intended) that kind of situation immediately. I told him right off he didn't have to stop on my account; shit, we both jack off, we both know it, why be ashamed of it and have to hide? That conversation led to unashamed, open jerkin' of the gherkins.

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    1. Gherkins, I like that, and how sweet they are!
      bj

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  4. Scott, imho, one of your best photos ever! Not really showing much, leaving it all to our imaginations, trying to figure out exactly what happens next...our boys in uniform!
    Artful1

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  5. Anonymous at 8:59 has it nailed. We are raised to think sex is bad. But we all know it's good, and so do our parents, and so does everyone else. So why we do pretend it's bad sometimes or feel embarrassed about it? I think it has something to do with religion. Religion has a way of making people feel shitty about things that are good.

    Circle jerks are every bit as much a straight thing as a bi or gay thing. I would bet that most guys (gay, straight, whatever) has at least some experience jacking off with a bud or buddies. The reason most dudes whether straight/bi/gay jack off together is because we understand how great it feels - we want it for ourselves and we want it for our buds. It's a bonding thing. We're all guys and we all like to get off.

    A few days ago someone posted on this website that he thought sex is sex regardless of whether it's m2m, m2w, w2w, whatever. I had never thought of it that way before. I spent some time thinking about what he said, and the more I thought the more it made sense. Sex is sex. Love is love. We are so hung up on labels. Do it however you want and ditch the guilt and embarrassment and labels that come from religion. Just be safe.

    Cheers bros. You're all awesome.

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    1. You too nailed it on the head. There's a lot of good info with this blog. A lot of good reasoning, too.
      Any newcomers out there?

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    2. I'm a new cummer, every day. Er...did you mean something else?

      Sorry about that, couldn't resist.

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  6. I grew up in a small neighborhood and we had a town everything (town drunk, town lecher, town bum and town gay) and I caught Petie, the town gay whacking his meet in the woods near the railroad tracks. He asked me if I wanted to join but at that age and time it freaked me out. I do remember though he had a large log - maybe that's why all the boys loved him! LOL.

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    1. Ward,
      One time when I was fifteen or sixteen. I was down by the river, Hudson. It was isolated there. I took all my clothes off and put on a bathing suit. About an hour later, I took off the suit and put my briefs on and the rest of the clothes. As I started to walk away, I looked across the railroad tracks. There were two high fences. Some man was on the other side of the far fence and he had been looking at me. He was playing with himself. He was probably in his thirties. I just kept on walking. Finally, I got up to the road, and looked over the wall, and he was a good distance below still in the woods, but I could see him. He was still playing with himself and waving to me to come on down. I got out of there. I too was freaked out.

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    2. Intereseting story Anon; but mine was a little different. I knew Petie,everybody knew him. He wasn't a pedophile. By freaked out I meant that I declined to join him and went on my way. But yeah, your story was a lot freakier!

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  7. I guess I'm in the minority. Never walked in on anyone jerking off; never had anyone walk in on me. Nor did I ever jerk off with anyone else, and that includes some time in the military (in the 70s). Thus, I don't even have a story to tell. But I thought that I should give Mark in Pittsburgh some support, so he knows that he's not alone in, shall I say, having been alone at all pertinent times.

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  8. My first circle jerk was when I was about 12 maybe with a few other kids in my neighbourhood. At that age I couldn't shoot, but I could get a hardon.

    Next time was about 14 years old with some other kids in the neighbourhood. One of the guys had a bunch of us over to his house for a sleepover. Except we didn't sleep much - went spent most of the night jerking off.

    Next time was about 16 in a similar situation.

    As far as I know NONE of those guys are self professed gay guys. They are all "normal" adult men.

    LOL - what the fuck is normal? Forget normal. No such thing.

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    1. Guy,
      You got that right. When it comes to sex, there is no such thing as normal. As someone said earlier. Being with a man or a woman, is pleasure, so enjoy it.
      The other day, I was at a supermarket, and saw a guy about 6'. He was with some young woman. Both were in there late twenties, or just touching, 30. The guy had shorts on, and I looked at his legs, flawless, and muscular. Great ass, too. And, good looking. I looked at his gfriend, and thought, this guy is better looking the she. No offense, but it's true. I saw him a second time, and thougt, this guy has a lot going for him. He is a nice a fantasy. Very nice. Guess what? My thinking was normal! All of us have been there in one way or another, and that's the truth.

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  9. Hummm I love it !!


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  10. Ha my roomie in college for my senior year and i are best friends to this day, i'm his kid's godfather and all. we JO so much in college and had a hard time finding time while the other way away, that we made a pact that we would just JO whenever and just tell the other person so he could leave if he wanted to. If the door was locked when he got back from class, he knew that if he came in i was gonna be JO. The first time he was at his desk, and I was on the sofa and i just laid down and started stroking it. He looked over, laughed, and turned back around to work on his paper. All he said was don't shoot over your shoulder (as I had done many times) and hit my bed or ill kill you. lol obviously i respectedh im enough not to. At night, he'd tell me he was gonna JO and either he and i both would in our bunks (not together---i was on bottom and he was on top bunk) or he 'd just sit at his desk and stroke it. It was weird at first, but so much easier than worrying that you were gonna get caught each time.

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  11. I have to agree with different comments here... I too think that the "training" so to speak, that we receive as kids plays a huge role into it all. The fact that society tells us that its "wrong" or that we have to hide and keep it to ourselves. I almost must question what some of the others said, "Why"? Now would I do it openly around other guys just because I don't agree with having to hide it? No! Though I wish it could be that way, I'd rather not go to jail just because someone sees me doing it somewhere and they can't deal with that. Never mind the fact they do it too though. In my opinion, it should be allowed and if someone doesn't like it, then why should they have to look?

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